Thursday, October 16, 2008

...cause we are living in a medicated world and I am an unmedicated girl....so far!

Depression is a  multi-dimesnional, multi symptom disease that has affected and  taken many past and present American lives. Coming from a  genetic background of deprsession and battling it myslef as well as watching close friends and family battle it as well, I felt compelled to share some of my thoughts on depression and the treatment of this plague that is sweeping through America.
Modern medicial technolgoy is a wonderful thing. There are now so many cures for diseases that would otherwise be fatal to us and our loved ones.  Many doctors are amazing individulas who have a true heart for helping others and who dedicate their lives to learning about the human body and its ailments, as well as be there for us when we need a diagnosis and treatment or a cure. I think it safe to say, that while many of us are wary, the majority of us are too trusing of that man or woman in a white coat and stethaschope hanging around his or her neck.
 We cannot forget that doctors are still  as human as we are, and that while I am sure most start their practices with noble resolution to give proper care to their patients, I think if really pressed for the truth, even the noblest of physicians could not claim immunity against the inevitable pressure to run a lucrative practice in this day and age and economy and eventually suucomb to the "chop shop" approach  resulting in minimal doctor patient time and, for lack of a better or more politically correct term, "drug pushing"  
Before I go on, I cannot emphasize enough that I do believe that depression is real and calls for careful and serious treatment, I am also aware that depression varies greatly in degrees of severity. However,  I  also believe that we have gone from one exteme of not recognizing depression and having proper treatment, to labeling just about anyone who is feeling sluggish and unhappy with his or her life as a "clinically depressed individual" I really do think, that we as doctors AND patients been giving depression far more credit than is due the credit in our offices and lives. As patients, we need to search oursleves and make sure we are not too willing to take the back seat when it comes to any of our health care needs, especially when confronted with the prospect of taking mind altering drugs. I can think of a myriad of things that would trigger symptoms of depression: Countinual stress, exhaustion, lack of nutrition, lack of excercise, traumatic experiences, family drama, marriage challenges/ failures, or deaths. It just seems to me that doctors need to be doing a lot more reffering out to specialist that can offer help for these symptoms rather than be so quick tp mask them with a pill.  I really think we need to listen to our symptoms NOT cover them up. Our bodies are incredibly intelligent creations and either we don't trust them enough or we are too busy running around like chickens with our heads cutt off to stop and listen. I heard a doctor talk about this kind of thing, and  I remember him saying something that stayed with me....he started out in the early part of his career being a "syptom treater", trying vigilantly to get his patients to get to the bottom of what they were feeling....but so many of his patients didn't want to put in the work. they really just wanted him to write that prescription, and after a while he stopped trying....let's not be guilty of contributing to that kind of laxidazical attitude when it comes to the only body we will ever have. I know that it is hard, we live in  a time where instant results and instant gratification rule our lives. We don't want to wait for anything!  
As I stated above, I come from a genetic background of clinical depression and continue to fight it myself.  I have considered going to the doctor to discuss treatment but I haven't reached the point where I feel ready to do that. 
I originally intended for this all to be one blog, but I have decided to break it up into seperate blogs, each expanding on a method that has been helpful for me to avoid seeking medication for my level of depression which are the following:
Get out of my world and look at the world around me
I analyze my level of nutrition and excercise habits
I analyze my spritual well being
I find someone to help
Again, I cannot emphasize enough that clinical depression is serious and I am not a doctor nor do I have any medical proof that the methods I am sharing will be effective for anyone else but myslef. 



Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Who's right is it anyway??

Ok, so, this is not a political blog spot I promise! I assure you, it is mere coincidince that my first entry is politic related.  Politics are simply in the forefront of my mind lately as I think they should be considering our country is facing what seems to me to be one of the biggest "fork in the road" elections of all time.  Each cadidate, worlds apart from each other on every aspect with opposing values and ideas when it come to what make America a great country consequently making both candidates out to protect very opposing sets of rights.
Speaking of "Rights" Does anyone even know what they are and who the hell they belong to? I haven been really struck lately by the contradictory nature of it all...below are some examples I wanted to share that never cease to blow me away. I also included some links that I have come across and found very informative.


Schools in Massachussets have the "right" to teach children about homosexual relationships, but the parents of those children do not have the "right" to choose to opt their children out of that exposure...not even on the grounds of their "religeous rights"


Homosexuals pursue the right to adopt and start a family, While many believe that a child should have every "right" to the normalcy of a nuclear family with a father and mother as male and female.

A teenage girl has the "right" to go and get an abortion without parental consent, but does not have the "right" to get her ears peirced without a guardian present.

Katie Perry  has excercises her "right" to tell my children on the radio with her top of the charts hit, that she kissed a girl and she liked it and that "its no big deal its innocent", but my child no longer has the "right" to tell someone about Jesus at school.  

Your School nurse has the "right" to counsel your daughter to consider abortion, an experience that will impact her life forever and may result in severe medical complications. She does not have the "right" to give your daughter Tylenol for a headache

A burglar has the "right" to break into my house while I am on vacation, get trapped in my garage forced to eat dog food to survive, and then file a law suit against me for his traumatic experience- and win!
I don't have the "right" to shoot the bastard!

A  woman clutches to  the "right to choose" while the unborne's "rights to live" slip through their perfectly formed little fingers. 



More to come....please share some of YOUR mind blowers!

Welcome!

Greetings everyone and Welcome to Wendybird's Eye View!
Over the years, I have been inspired to write....about lots of things.... familiy dynamics, human sexuality, politics, religeon, spirituality, music, entertainment, art, etc. I find writing to be both theraputic and educational.  It forces me to expand, organize and document some thoughts that would otherwise be lost forever in the shuffle of every day life. 
For a long time now, I hear my ponderings turning into essays in my mind...not well formed,  more chunks and bits and somewhat scattered pieces of some really good thoughts, information, and perspective that never go anyhwere but to a few friends and family. 
So, I don't have any agenda for this blog except to give myslef an outlet for some of this stuff churning around in my head, and to give others the opportunity to share in that with me. Please expect to find a wide variation of topics! I hope you are intrigued.....at least a little. I value your comments and feedback so please, dont be shy!